My favorite Quote!

This life is what you make it. No matter what, you're going to mess up sometimes, it's a universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you're going to mess it up. Girls will be your friends - they'll act like it anyway. But just remember, some come, some go. The ones that stay with you through everything - they're your best friends. Don't let go of them. Also remember, sisters make the best friends in the world. As for lovers, well, they'll come and go too. And babe, I hate to say it, most of them-actually pretty much all of them are going to break your heart, but you can't give-up because if you give up, you'll never find your soul mate. You'll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once, doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will, sweetie? So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about. 

-- Marilyn Monroe

Love your Singleness

Yes, I wrote this because I am single. :) Honestly, I was hesitant on writing this post about love, but since i'm here already typing these letters, I guess it's time to let it all come out.

Few months from now it's already been a year since I had my first (first love, first boyfriend, ever) long term relationship. And am still not sure if that's the last also. Haha! Kidding aside, I was so madly and deeply in love at that time and I'm still "in the process" of you-know-what. :)

Of course everyone would say that a break-up really sucks, big time! And nobody would want to be in the position. All those emotions, bitterness, drama, lonely and sleepless nights, pain, and everything that comes with it, are only a part of the bigger picture. Every single person that goes through it, suffers. Pero it will all pass. For someone who already had their hearts broken, they probably know the drill.

What drill ba kamo? 

Go lang ng Gooow!

Meron akong nakilalang guest speaker sa Enrichment Program namin sa school. Noong una, akala ko isa na namang boring na pep talk about society ang topic namin. So syempre lumabas muna ako ng auditorium para kumain. Pagbalik ko nakapagstart na pala. To my surprise, nakuha agad ng speaker ang attention ko. Kasi napakainteresting ng sinasabi nya. About life,  goals, and achievements. The very one thing na kailangang kailangan ko dahil sa mga pinagdadaanan ko.

May short autobiography yun speaker for the sake or sharing. Para daw makarelate kami sa kanya. Ang dami nyang baon na jokes, nakakatawa pa rin siya kahit hindi siya nagjojoke at may sense ang lahat ng sinasabi nya. Yun tipong alam mong hindi sya nambobola o nagiimbento. In all fairness naman, ramdam ko na marami o halos siguro lahat kaming mga fourth year students from different courses eh nakarelate sa story nya.

Na ang buhay ay dapat may direksyon. Dapat maaga pa lang magtanim ka ng goals para kapag nagawa mo na yun, may achievements kang makukuha agad. Pero dahil sa generation natin ngayon lahat na yata ang gusto instant! Sana tatandaan mo din palagi na hindi lahat pwede mong makuha agad-agad! It doesn't happen over night so be patient and persevere to achieve your dreams. Kailangan mo lang palaging lumaban at labanan lahat ng challenges o problema. Kasi kahit ano pang gawin mo, panghinaan ka man ng loob, sabihin mo pa na masakit na at nasasaktan ka o hindi mo na keri, tuloy-tuloy pa rin naman ang pag-ikot ng mundo. Hindi naman titigil ang oras para hintayin ka. Kaya kahit sisihin mo pa ang Nanay at Tatay mo, ang mga kapatid mo, professor mo, kapitbahay mo o yun best friend mo dahil feeling mo hindi ka nila tinulungan, kung hindi ka lalaban sa buhay ikaw pa rin ang talo. Sa huli, ikaw rin ang naiwan. Oras at mga pangarap mo ang nasayang. At higit sa lahat, for the second time around, ikaw ang talo!